Relying on signs from the universe, angels/guides, gurus, astrology readings, etc to make decisions is placing your trust OUTSIDE of yourself.

Same with relying on logic, analysis, rules, research, best practices, Yelp reviews, Tim Ferris, etc.

Nothing wrong with using any of these tools as additional input, as supplementary information.

But as the entire compass for navigating your life??

Nah fam 😏

Only YOU can truly know what’s right for you.

If your relationship isn’t feeling alive; if it’s feeling stuck or stagnant; if you’re constantly wondering if you’d be happier with someone else…

…then your relationship is lacking tension (the right kind of tension).

Tension that comes from the both of you fully owning the truth of yourselves with each other. Without sanding off the edges.

Tension that comes from a relationship constantly growing, evolving, and pushing up against it’s former bounds…then bursting straight through to richer, more intimate territory.